Why are you not fighting for your babies? I just have to believe that you were strong-armed all these years to let Michael have full custody of the children. But now he is gone. And those darling kids are going to be raised by the same loons who raised Michael. Please, please, please fight for the well-being of those children!!! I promise you (and this comes from a place of know, not just some snarky opinion) they will be destroyed in a few years when they are old enough to realize that after their father died, you still didn't want them. You didn't parent them. You didn't raise them. You didn't take them to school and to church and to soccer practice and to play dates. You didn't cuddle them when they were sad and make ice cream sundaes when they get an A in math. No one would believe you were fighting for Michael's money. Everyone would know you were fighting for the well-being of those cute babies. Fight for them, Debbie!! And then move them out of LA. Give them a more normal-ish life.