Tuesday, December 5, 2017

Big Hair Decision: Two More Inches and Then I'll Donate

My hair is long.

I realize long and short are relative terms but for me and my hair history, my hair is crazy pants long.  And I don't feel great about it.  

I should say that in general, I don't love very long hair on adult women.  I think it often looks like women are hanging onto younger years and once upon a time and it ages them.  So going into this, know that I am just not a big lover of very long hair.  It's not my jam.  

On top of that, I have very thin hair.  My pony tail is about as thick as that of a toddler.  My hair is also straight as a board and body-less.  I dry my hair upside down and use hair spray and round brushes and still get almost no body going on in my nest.

So long hair, in my opinion, just doesn't suit me.

However, what I see and what the world sees are different.




I get so many compliments on my hair when it's long.  And that's one of the only areas of my life that garners compliments.  So I've doubted myself a lot over the past few years when it comes to my hair.  I feel better with it shorter.  But the world responds better when it's longer.

As much as I would love to be in a place to say fuck it to society and not feel anything when a well meaning "Your hair looks so pretty!" comment floats my way...that's just not where I am mentally. Because compliments do help on those down days.  They're a boost and a comfort when you forget which way is up.

So I've gone back and forth on do I chop off this mop top sister wife hair or do I let it go a while longer?  

In the end, I know I will cut it.  If for no other reason than I just think it's annoying to have to deal with long hair.  It tangles and needs brushing more than the once a day that I prefer and always ends up in a pony tail by the end of the day.  

But something I've always wanted to do is donate my hair.  However, I've been told many times over that you can only donate non color treated hair.  And there is no way in hell I am about to go a day, let alone a year, without coloring my locks.  In fact, I care more about coloring my hair than cutting it.  All day, every day, if I was forced to pick between the two, I'd pick coloring.  

So no, not coloring my hair is just not an option.

However, after another Google search, I found out that one {maybe more, but I stopped at one} organization will take color treated hair.  The caveat is that it has to be at least 10" in length to donate.  

I do have the length but that would leave me with really really short hair.  And as much as I want it cut, I don't want it quite that short. 

So my new game plan is to grow it out another 1-2".  My hair grows fast so I estimate that takes me into January or February at the latest.  Which is perfect.

I turn 40 in February.  And currently have zero plans.  

So this is my new plan.  Deal with the stringy, long locks for another few months.  And then chop it off and start my fourth decade with a fun, fresh cut.  Plus, finally get the joy of donating to cancer patients who need wigs.

I didn't say this was an earth shaking game plan.  But it feels good to have a goal and an end date.  

If you have any short hair {it will likely be between my chin and shoulder at that point} ideas for me, please send them my way!  I'm open to anything style and color wise.  I'm pretty excited about making a fresh change in the new year for my new decade!

XOKK





1 comment:

MCW said...

OMG. I am complete opposite and don't think women should ever cut their hair. I love all women of all ages with nice long hair. I plan on being a grandma with flowing locks. Ha. If any of my friends say they want to cut their hair, I talk them out of it. So, don't cut your hair!!!!
Ha.
And...you say people complement your hair a lot, I always compliment your legs!

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